In a fast-paced, convenience-driven world, homemaking can often feel undervalued or overwhelming. But the truth is, homemaking is a ministry. It’s an opportunity to create an atmosphere where faith flourishes, love is nurtured, and peace is present.
Biblical homemaking is more than laundry, dishes, and routines—it’s about cultivating a space where God’s presence is felt and where your family can thrive spiritually, emotionally, and physically.
Homemaking Begins with the Heart
Scripture: “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.” —Colossians 3:23 (NIV)
Homemaking isn’t about perfection; it’s about purpose. When we approach our tasks with a heart to serve the Lord, even the most ordinary chores become acts of worship. We teach this to our family as well when they see it in us. If our mindset is negative towards our duties in the home, our family will pick up on that and it will have a negative influence on them. But if we exemplify a positive and loving attitude towards our duties it will set the tone for the rest of the family. Learning to change our vocabulary from “I have to do this” to “I get to do this” makes a huge difference. We must learn to love what we do because it is the place God has set us.
Shift your mindset from “I have to do this” to “I get to serve my family as unto the Lord.” If this is something you struggle with, take it to the Lord.
“Lord, I want to love my home and making it a place of peace and security for my family. Show me the blessings of being a homemaker & fill my heart with your love and truth as a homemaker.
Creating a Peaceful Atmosphere
“Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her.” —Proverbs 31:28 (NIV)
A peaceful home doesn’t come from perfect décor but from the tone we set. As women, we are often the emotional thermostat of the home. A home rooted in kindness, grace, and patience reflects Christ. As I mentioned earlier this tone is determined by the mindset we have towards our daily duties. Often, as a young mom when I saw bad attitudes in my children I was the example they were following. Until I learned to evaluate my own heart & attitude was I able to help my children correct their bad attitudes.
Creating a peaceful home for your husband to come home to after a long hard work day is so very important. I remember a conversation my husband & I had where I mentioned finding a part time job to help supplement income. He reminded me that the best way I could help him is to keep our home as a safe and peaceful place for our family. He could focus on his work without worrying about what was happening at home. This helped change my perspective on what I did everyday. It was more than cleaning, feeding children and teaching them. It was a blessing to him when I managed our home well.
Serving with Joy, Not Resentment
“Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling.” —1 Peter 4:9 (NIV)
I will admit…keeping house can become very boring. It’s easy to grow weary of repetitive tasks. But scripture reminds us that serving—whether through meals, laundry, or hosting—is a reflection of Christ’s love. When we remember who we are working for it really helps keep our attitude in the right place. Remember, choose your words well. You get to cook for your family and you get to wash their clothes and you get to help your children learn how to be responsible & work hard.
Pray for joy and strength in the mundane. Even folding laundry can become a moment of gratitude when you thank God for the people whose clothes you’re folding.
Stewardship and Order
“Everything should be done in a fitting and orderly way.” —1 Corinthians 14:40 (NIV)
Caring for your home is an act of stewardship. While it doesn’t have to be flawless, creating order where you can brings peace and invites rest. Creating daily routines and rhythms are important in setting up your home for success. If everyone knows what to expect during the day it also helps create an environment of peace and productivity.
Create a simple schedule for maintaining the home. Monday-laundry, Tuesday-floors, Wednesday-meal planning & shopping, Thursday- bathrooms, Friday – bedrooms. When you make a list of what needs to be done each day and who will do what it will create order in the home.
I made a list of everything that needs to be cleaned in my house. Then I sorted the list into 3 categories; daily, weekly & monthly. Then I took 3 different color index cards and assigned a color for each category. They I wrote the task on the appropriate color card and kept them in a small plastic box. Everyday I’d grab the daily cards and the kids would help me get those done. Then we would grab a weekly & monthly task card and do those. It really helped to stay on top of those tasks that often get pushed aside or we think will take too much time. For weeks I had been putting off cleaning under the outdoor furniture on our patio. Once I actually did it, I realized it only took me 15 minutes! Weeks of procrastination over 15 minutes of work.
Homemaking is Holy Work
Your role in the home is sacred. When you sweep floors, prepare meals, fold laundry, or tend to a child’s scraped knee, you are reflecting the heart of Christ—the ultimate servant.
Homemaking with purpose means inviting God into every corner of your home, creating not just a dwelling place but a sanctuary of grace, love, and intentionality. Make the most of all the little moments the Lord provides to worship through your work and to teach your children to do the same.
- How can I invite God into my homemaking today?
- What areas of my home could become more peaceful, orderly, or welcoming?
- Am I prioritizing tasks that foster spiritual growth within my family?
Dana Bailey 